Sexuality is socially constructed. Social constructions are informed by symbols of identities. Fetishes are a physical symbols that link social identity with sexual expression.
“Individuals and groups give meaning to bodily sensations and feelings and make erotic acts into sexual identities”
Types of Fetishes
Media/Material - arousal from the type of material and its association. Leather is common, as are latex and rubber in some social contexts. Media fetishes can manifest in other elements of kink sexuality, such as bondage, if the material of restraint is of symbolic value (rope vs. chain, for example)
Form/Object - arousal from the type of object. Sneakers, boots, football uniforms, etc. As suggested above, fetishes can be attached to the form of restraint (for form, the thickness of rope might matter)
Fetish objects are usually able to be linked back to a specific identity via association, but it is also possible that a fetish feeling may link through the emotion conveyed by an object.
Aesthetics - a visual appreciation, whether through casual observation in the wild, images discovered (and stored) or an intent voyeuristic practice. The aesthetics can be attached to fantasy or can in themselves be arousing.
Touch - touch creates a more personal connection with an object and makes it feel more real. In fetish feeling the object provides more familiarity with the materials and construction of the object but can also illuminate individual differences in an object, feeling where a guy's toes were in his boots or feeling creases in a pair of basketball shoes where they hugged the guy's foot. Thermal properties of touch can give a sense of life and recency to the object (warm hoodie off a basketball player)
Smell - smells have various functions in fetish. Smelling a 'clean' object assures of its purity or allows for a direct enjoyment of the specific medium (leather boots). Smelling a 'live' item allows for an intimate exploration of the wearer
Sneakers are a symbol of a refined or athletic masculinity. Traditionally the athletic masculinity is constructed and maintained by a ritualized rehearsal of masculinity acts (workouts, practices, etc) in which the sneakers appear. Attraction to specialized footwear, such as cleats, may also be created from a similar perspective. Some athletes wear other things when not engaged in these rituals, but those items tend to not be fetishized. The fetish for sneakers could be associated with the masculine ritual or the perception of power attached to the individual based on their participation in the ritual. Witnessing the ritual is not required, the perception of the ritual based on either physical characteristics or acts of social integration conveys the identity.
'Sneakerhead' culture celebrates this fetish in a non-sexualized way, elevating certain symbolic sneakers due to their link to another culture (primarily basketball culture).
Boots differ from sneakers in that they tend to be intrinsically masculinized, rendering them as a fetish object on their own standing, if for no other reason than the association with the leather media fetish. Further, boots can gain additional attraction by the men they are attached to, similar to sneakers, but with fewer connections to masculinity rituals. Men who wear boots can usually be separated into categories based on their occupational roles, but themes of specific occupations seem to occur less frequently than identity separations for other fetishes and instead are attached to the boot type. Does the man fetishize the boot or does the boot fetishize the man?
Sport is one of the recognized rituals of masculinity, which utilizes a competitive premise to establish a hierarchy of superiority. The hierarchy itself is irrelevant to fetish, but does appear as a theme in DS. As it pertains to fetish the relationship between athletic clothing, equipment, etc and the ritual is what is important. This fetish can also extend to other types of costumes used in masculine performance, such as military uniforms, symbolizing a combative masculinity.
A muscle "fetish" is not technically a fetish, but another form of paraphilia as either partialism (arousal by specific body parts) or sthenolagnia (attraction to muscles/muscle worship). This interest celebrates the strength of masculinity through its physical features.
The attributes of fetish have been described above, including an assortment of forms and media as well as an abbreviated exhibition of basic sensory connections to fetish. The sensory connections describe the method by which the fetish object is experienced, but it does not describe how the symbol is acted upon. There are many ways to act upon the symbol, two common ones are objectification and role taking.
Role taking involves wearing the object and therefore taking on the identity associated with the object, projecting the identity or experimentally consuming components of it (jock confidence, military aggression). Role taking also enables symbolic manipulation of the identity through blending it with other identities (including your own). Role taking can range from simple emulation, which can be achieved just by wearing the object, to full role play in which you 'become' the identity either for the duration of a play session or permanently (intentional hyper-masculine performance by gay men, for example). Role taking is a social exercise of the fetish, but should not be confused for a lack of authenticity of presentation. An authentic identity can include fetish-based role taking.
Objectification can be done through ejaculating on the object or otherwise bringing the object into the sexual component of play. Obtaining an object that belongs/belonged to a guy who represents the fetishized identity and then wearing the item yourself can also be a form of objectification. Objectification closely aligns with DS themes and can be used in humiliation play. Objectification can range from an aesthetic appreciation for the object and using the image as the basis for your own arousal/orgasm to non-consensual rape of the object.
Role taking and objectification are active forms of practiced fetish. More passive or submissive fetish practices involve arousal from feeling the symbolic power of the fetish object exercised. Licking, kissing and smelling the object to experience the object can be considered objectification, but depending upon the frame of mind taken it can also be a massive experience of the fetish object, showing appreciation for the embodied identity. Other types of fetish play such as being the recipient of trampling by sneakers is a different form of passive play that is the exercise of the fetish by accepting subordination to the fetish object. It could be argued that these passive acts are also a form of 'role taking', except instead of enacting the identity the recipient is taking the role of being the subordinate to the fetishized identity, whether directly named in a binary (jock vs. nerd) or a generalized submissive identity.
Fetishes are fluid, constantly changing based on stimuli provided through the social context. In part, this is how we know that fetishes are social. Fluidity may be observed through either direct societal influence (ex. jocks are now wearing Air Max 97, making it 'appealing', despite its previous status) or they may move based on the consistency and evolution of a theme (ex. Air Max 270 followed an existing theme, therefore attraction may have evolved without need to observe them in the wild).
Fetish: Erotic attraction to an object that has been socially deemed to have a special status due to some characteristic. A person with a fetish internalizes the value of the characteristic and becomes aroused by the object.
What is the erotic function of the fetish object and from what social constructs are fetishes invested with their meaning?
In what ways might intimacy occur through fetish during play?
Are there any objects of fetish attraction that you cannot identify the social root of? If so, can you identify a fetish theme it belongs to?
Is there an erotic value in wearing a fetish object? Describe that value to you.